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Truce

Thank you all for your warm welcome to Beau yesterday! There has been more than a little bit of hissing and growling, but there has also been an encouraging amount of peace already, considering Beau arrived so recently. In this photo, Ashton naps on the bottom rung of the cat tree, about two feet from Beau, who just finished bathing.

Ashton and Beau Truce

In general, Pierre hisses at Beau, and Beau growls at everybody else. He seems to be most accepting of Newton, who is the most persistently curious and least likely to hiss or act aggressive.

Beau loves to snuggle and burrow, which is really cute at bedtime. The biggest problem right now is that he came from a free-feeding environment and isn’t getting the idea that he needs to eat at meals very quickly, but we know he can figure it out.

Layla from Cat Wisdom 101 asked about how we managed introductions. We actually did it the totally non-approved way. Beau came out of his carrier and met a curious Newton, then Pierre came in to give his two cents, then Ashton wandered in later. We are prepared to separate him and do more gradual introductions if necessary, but he is an extremely social cat and cries if separated from humans by a door. So it wouldn’t be preferable to do that, if we don’t have to.

We’ll keep you posted about Beau’s progress as he settles into the household. We have lots of other posts in the queue already, since we are preparing for the head peep to be away in November, so if you see less of him than you expect, it isn’t because the peeps love him any less. It’s just because they have a lot more photos of the rest of us right now!

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October 21, 2013 Filed Under: Cats Tagged With: Ashton, Beau 26 Comments

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  1. Whisppy says

    October 21, 2013 at 2:19 am

    That’s amazing that Ashton is chilling out on her tree with Beau just 2 feet from her! Good to know things are going well between Beau and Newton. We hope Pierre comes around soon!

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  2. Athena says

    October 21, 2013 at 3:44 am

    That’s such a nice picture. Looks like they’ll be getting on OK. 🙂

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  3. Marg says

    October 21, 2013 at 6:42 am

    Sounds like Beau is just plain a nice cat and unbothered by the other cats so they are accepting him. I think you did fine just letting them get to know each other. Take care.

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  4. Madi and Mom says

    October 21, 2013 at 6:58 am

    Beau seems to be managing fine the way you are doing it. Once everyone scent is mingled things will hopefully the hissing and spitting will cease.
    I, Madi, hiss and spit and growl every time my human sis comes to visit. Only room for one diva in this house and that is ME!!
    Hugs Madi your bFFF

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  5. Hannah and Lucy says

    October 21, 2013 at 7:38 am

    Beau looks quite calm sitting against the window and Ashton doesn’t seem bothered by him. They’ll all be great friends before long.
    Luv Hannah and Lucy xx xx

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  6. The Paw Relations says

    October 21, 2013 at 7:58 am

    We’re glad that Beau is settling in so well.

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  7. The Island Cats says

    October 21, 2013 at 7:58 am

    We’re glad everybuddy is getting along okay…considering. That is great (and the mom says you’re lucky it’s going so well).

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  8. Katie Isabella says

    October 21, 2013 at 8:32 am

    Oh I didn’t know about a new baby for you to love. Beau, keep being peaceful and loving. Everyone will come around, I hope. xoxoxox

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  9. Katnip Lounge says

    October 21, 2013 at 9:53 am

    That’s exactly how all our integrations happen, too–they work it out just fine! Beau is SO handsome!!!

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  10. Mo & The Purries says

    October 21, 2013 at 10:08 am

    Makes me so happy to see Beau settling in with his new family.
    He’s still a growing boy, he’ll adjust quickly to all the new routines of your household. So thrilled that I’ll get to keep tabs on my little cuddlebug. Thank you for adopting him in to your home!

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  11. Penny says

    October 21, 2013 at 10:28 am

    Great that Beau has found a lovely forever home where he can continue to blog! I’m sure he’ll settle in well.

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  12. Brian says

    October 21, 2013 at 10:37 am

    Beau will have the routine figured out in no time! Thanks for all the purrs, I am trying to use them wisely.

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  13. The Florida Furkids says

    October 21, 2013 at 12:41 pm

    Beau is adorable! It won’t be long until everyone adjusts!

    The Florida Furkids

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  14. Angel Tom & Tinker says

    October 21, 2013 at 12:59 pm

    Well, we’re tickled that Beau found a home with you all!! Glad everything is working out well. Every kitty is different when it comes to introductions, but they eventually realize it’s a new family member and everybody may as well get along.

    Concatulations on your new home, Beau. We couldn’t think of a better place for hang yer hat.

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  15. Colehaus Cats says

    October 21, 2013 at 2:13 pm

    We love that Beau is with you and seemingly doing so well with the others already! Sending purrs that this behavior keeps up and all get along swell in the months ahead! Purrs…

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  16. Angel Abby says

    October 21, 2013 at 3:49 pm

    Well Ashton is such a wonderful lady of course she welcomes Beau!!! We are so glad to hear introductions are going so well.

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  17. Layla Morgan Wilde (Cat Wisdom 101) says

    October 21, 2013 at 4:28 pm

    This is amazing so soon and I’m speaking as a cat behaviorist.

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  18. Meghan at Two Cats and a Cattledog says

    October 21, 2013 at 4:42 pm

    It’s lovely that they are settling in so well! Go Beau!

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  19. Cathy Keisha says

    October 21, 2013 at 4:50 pm

    Whoa! TW doesn’t let me visit for a few days and all heck breaks loose. OMC! A new brofur! He just came in and was innerduced and all went well? Except maybe with Ashton. Concats!

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  20. Caren Gittleman says

    October 21, 2013 at 7:03 pm

    sounds like everything is coming along swimmingly! Or should I say “purringly” wait! That’s not even a word! MOL!

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  21. Oui Oui says

    October 21, 2013 at 8:49 pm

    It sounds like Beau is going to fit right in. We did our introductions your way too, until we had Julie. Now we have to do it gradually. Well, in the case of MMM, we’ve never gotten past the behind the door stage, but gradual worked with Oui Oui.

    Before Julie, we would try to do gradual, but the kitties fussed at the doors separating them so much, the mom just opened the door, and it always worked out fine. Until Julie . . .

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  22. Texas, a cat in... Austin says

    October 21, 2013 at 9:37 pm

    Oh! I missed the post about Beau! I gotta look at your previous posts! Welcome Beau!

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  23. Laila and Minchie says

    October 21, 2013 at 11:20 pm

    Way to go, Beau!

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  24. Mark's Mews says

    October 22, 2013 at 1:11 pm

    A belated welcome to Beau! We hope evrything settles down soon.

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  25. Kitties Blue says

    October 22, 2013 at 3:18 pm

    Our humans are very bad about introductions. They are very good about trying, but the intruder or one of us always discovers that something different is a paw. Once the secret is revealed, it’s all over but the hissing. The one thing they will do is keep the newbies in the kitchen at night for at least the first couple of months so the rest of us won’t be snuck up on and disturbed while we’re sleeping. We give them a C on their integrating skills. Purrs and hugs, Lily Olivia, Mauricio, Misty May, Giulietta, Fiona, Astrid, Lisbeth and Calista Jo

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  26. Clooney says

    October 22, 2013 at 8:24 pm

    Wow, that is so fantastic that it is going so well! You kitties rock! Purrs for good harmony and a peaceful adjustment for everykitty.

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