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The Unexpected Lap

I’ve been holding a story about Cupcake for a couple weeks, trying to decide whether to tell it here or not. I decided to go ahead and tell it because I’m very proud of how well Cupcake handled the situation. Even if it made her wear a “what was THAT” expression for a while.

black and white tuxedo kitten wears surprised expressionThe afternoon of New Year’s Eve was just warm enough to sit outside, as long as you stayed close to the sun and out of the wind. The coffee shop nearby with the sunniest patio is in a very heavily tourist area, so the patio was busy with visitors coming and going.

This isn’t Cupcake’s favorite patio, because it’s a noisy place, between the noises from the adjacent tourist attractions and the frequent buses at the nearby stop sign. Buses have air brakes, and Cupcake does not like air brakes.But the forecast was for freezing weather ahead, so I knew we wouldn’t be visiting any patios in the near future. We should make this one count.

A family came up to the coffee shop, and their little boy and his grandmother sat at a table nearby. The little boy had been instructed by his parents not to leave his chair until they returned, so he asked if Cupcake could visit him.

I got up from our table and carried Cupcake over, kneeling down next to him so he could pet her. As he stroked her back and told me about his two cats at home, one of those buses came to a stop at the nearby stop sign.

Cupcake must have felt too exposed where I was holding her, because she jumped out of my arms and into the closest chair, intending to hide under the shelter of the table. The only problem was the little boy was already sitting there. She ended up in his lap.

The posture of her ears went immediately from afraid to confused as the little boy smiled and gathered her close to him. He wasn’t just getting to pet the cat, he was getting to hold her!

black and white tuxedo kitten on child's lapMeanwhile, my mind was racing. Cupcake likes meeting strangers, but she doesn’t enjoy being held by them. I didn’t want her to struggle to get away and end up scratching the boy.

The little boy continued to tell me about his cats as he held Cupcake. One of them was still a kitten, he explained as Cupcake cautiously relaxed a little more in his lap. Her ears twitched, and she started to listen to the sounds around her rather than just plotting an escape.

I can’t remember what we talked about, but Cupcake was in his lap for several minutes before her ears started to go sideways again. I explained to him that I needed to take her back so she didn’t try to jump out of his lap and accidentally scratch him. He was disappointed he couldn’t keep Cupcake, but he let me taker back to the nearby table.

He and his grandmother talked to us for a few more minutes before the little boy’s parents came back out of the coffee shop. The little boy immediately told them all about holding Cupcake, and carefully explained what had happened.

“Can you stay here?” the little boy interjected into the conversation.

“I don’t live at the coffee shop, but I will be here a little while longer,” I answered, not sure what he was getting at.

He turned to his parents. “Can we go home and bring our cats back?”

All of us explained that probably wasn’t the best idea, since his cats weren’t accustomed to going out in public. I’m not sure he believed us, and I’m pretty sure that when he grows up, he will have a cat who goes to the coffee shop, too. Cupcake showed us that he’s going to grow up to be a real cat guy.

After that excitement, Cupcake deserved a little treat, even if she is cutting back on the puppaccinos after her last weigh-in.

black and white tuxedo kitten eats from tiny starbucks cupMaybe next time she can get her little treat in a cup big enough to fit her nose inside.

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January 15, 2018 Filed Under: Cats Tagged With: Cupcake 17 Comments

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  1. Summer says

    January 15, 2018 at 4:27 am

    MOL! I can only imagine what Cupcake must have been thinking! I think she did pretty well – I don’t like being held either.

    This is one lucky thing I have as a cat who showed as a kitten – I got used to having my claws trimmed very, very short when I was very young. My human has kept it up and my claws are so blunt they are not likely to harm anyone – not kids, and not older humans. As a therapy cat, being OK with those claw trims has been very useful, and as a public cat too.

    Pro tip: when you keep claws trimmed regularly, and don’t let them grow out too much, the quick stays short too.

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    • Cats Herd You says

      January 15, 2018 at 6:12 am

      Cupcake doesn’t like having her paws handled at all, but we’re working it! We hope she’ll do better with them with time and patience, but you’re right, we can’t keep them quite as short as yours, since her quicks aren’t as short. You’re such a pro, Summer!

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      • Connie - Tails from the Foster Kittens says

        January 15, 2018 at 6:26 pm

        they will retract if you trim regularly.

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  2. Kathleen MacEllis says

    January 15, 2018 at 9:14 am

    Cupcake ,as always , rose to the occasion ! I love the look of confusion on her face ! She is so adorable !

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  3. The Island Cats says

    January 15, 2018 at 9:25 am

    Cupcake sure handled that situation, even if it surprised her a little.

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  4. Random Felines says

    January 15, 2018 at 9:51 am

    Yay!! Good job Cupcake….. We bet you made his whole week. (Don’t worry….Chanel isn’t a fan of pawdicures either)

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  5. Eastside Cats says

    January 15, 2018 at 10:22 am

    I freaking hate those air breaks too, Cupcake! Some locales have outlawed them

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  6. Three Chatty Cats says

    January 15, 2018 at 10:28 am

    What a great story! Sounds like Cupcake did a great job. And love hearing about kids who love animals.

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  7. Lola The Rescued Cat says

    January 15, 2018 at 10:38 am

    Cupcake, you’re doing such a great job becoming a cat about town. You’re becoming braver and braver.

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  8. The Swiss Cats says

    January 15, 2018 at 3:07 pm

    You handled that situation like a champ, Cupcake ! Purrs

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  9. Memories of Eric and Flynn says

    January 15, 2018 at 3:54 pm

    Sounds like Cupcake handled everything well, and made the little boy’s day too.

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  10. Cathy Keisha says

    January 15, 2018 at 5:11 pm

    Cupcake could charm anybuddy. That boy prolly went home and told all his friends about getting to hold a famous cat about town.

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  11. Mary McNeil says

    January 15, 2018 at 6:23 pm

    Wow, Cupcake, you did a fabulous job ! And you know, so did your Mom, by keeping her cool. The boy was pretty awesome too – first of all sitting still and already knowing how to hold a kitty new to him.
    Great job all around !

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  12. Melissa & Mudpie says

    January 15, 2018 at 6:26 pm

    What a great story! You should be so proud of your sweet girl!

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  13. Connie - Tails from the Foster Kittens says

    January 15, 2018 at 6:26 pm

    I think that is the first catboy I’ve heard about. 🙂

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  14. William's Kith & Kin says

    January 15, 2018 at 8:04 pm

    That must have been pretty scary, Cupcake. But you handled it like a champ–and made a new friend, too!

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  15. mommakatandherbearcat says

    January 16, 2018 at 3:26 pm

    Cupcake … you made that sweet boy’s day!! Sometimes it takes so little and costs even less – YAY to rising to the occasion and ensuring this boy will love cats forever.

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